A:  At a large university such as the UA, the social atmosphere tends to be less intimate than what you would find at a small college.  Crossing paths with people you will never see again in the remainder of your college career is not uncommon.  Large class sizes and crowded, noisy eateries only contribute to this sense of impersonality.  Therefore, if your goal is to know people on a more intimate level, realize that it will require some extra effort on your part.
 
For starters, seek out people who share some of your interests and hobbies.  The advantage of a large university is that it hosts a wide variety of special interest clubs, organizations and activities. Contact ASUA for more information or check out their website on the University of Arizona homepage for a comprehensive listing.  Involvement in special interest activities and clubs will provide opportunities to meet people on a more personal level and see them on a regular basis.  
 
Look for ways to personalize your contact with classmates as well.  Study groups, note-sharing and class projects are an easy way to get to know someone on a more personal level.  Finally, look to your friends, both old and new, to help you expand your social circle.  Some additional tips for making yourself more approachable to others:


1) Smile – it automatically puts others at ease and lets them know that you are happy and relaxed.


2) Stand up straight, shoulders back – this shows that you are open and welcoming to others; slouching sends a message of insecurity.


3) Don’t cross your arms – this is the stance of someone who is on guard and closed off from their surroundings; keep arms at your side or use them for gesturing.


4) Introduce yourself to someone within the first 5 minutes of your arrival – the moment you walk into a new environment, scope out the place, walk up to someone who looks friendly and say “Hey, I’m …How’s it going?”


5) Make eye contact – shifty eyes that avoid direct contact indicate nervousness and insecurity; a comfortable amount of eye contact shows that you are listening and interested.